This kitten just needed the help. Not in a hurry to show the cat how much you love her. Let her set the pace. She needs to feel safe, and then the bonds of trust begin to grow.
Use interactive games as a way to engage her in the interaction, and at the same time, allowing her to stay within her comfort zone. The fishing rod toy will allow you to keep far enough away from the cat so that it can focus a little more on the game than on you.
This is actually what you need because if she feels she can relax in your company and shouldn’t keep an eye on you all the time, it will help her see that you are a friend rather than an enemy.
